How much you smoke, drink, eat, exercise and whether you use protection during sex or while out in the sun matters. Doctors weigh in on what matters most.
Your surgical history
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When you first see a new doctor because you switched jobs and healthcare providers or relocated to a new town, you’ll be filling out tons of medical and insurance forms. (Know the .) A biggie in the long slew of “yes” and “no” checkboxes refers to your surgical history. From minor procedures to major operations, Manhattan plastic surgeon David Shafer, MD, says being honest about your past will help alleviate complications in your future. Though many of his surgeries are elective, every surgeon needs background info to minimize your risk for scar tissue, reactions, and more. “I always find it concerning when a patient tells me they have never had surgery, and when I examine them they have what are clearly facelift incisions,” he shares.
Your age
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As you begin to approach middle-age, start menopause or feel those aches and pains of getting older, you might be tempted to tell a little white lie about exactly what decade is on your birth certificate. Instead of fibbing, try laughing about your increasing years by working in some senior jokes. While it’s likely not a big deal to fudge the truth to a bartender, grocer, or random stranger at networking event, your doctor needs to know the honest truth about everything, including how many candles were on your last birthday cake. Not only is your age a crucial element to how they prescribe a treatment, but it’s information they’re going to find out, no matter what. And lying about it? It could break that essential doctor-patient trust. “I know patients don’t like admitting their age, but it’s very important to be truthful,” Dr. Shafer says. “If a patient tells me they are 49 but then their insurance card shows a birthday indicating they are 57, I have to wonder if the patient is lying about anything else.”
What you eat
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After trying to drop the unwanted pounds around your midsection without much success, you make an appointment to see your doc to figure out a game plan. If you’re not being truthful about your habits, your doctor won’t be able to help much. (Check to see if these can help.)
“Studies have shown that patients underestimate how much they are eating and how often they indulge in unhealthy food. Many patients don’t want to admit the difficulties they have with complying with the prescribed diet so it is easier for them to deny that they are eating anything ‘bad,’” says Tania Dempsey, MD, an integrative doctor in Armonk, New York.
Instead of feeling shameful for giving into sweet cravings or not working out for a week (or several), explain what’s tripping you up so your doctor can give her best advice. After all, since she doesn’t eat every meal with you she can only assist based on the info you share. “If I think that the diet intervention isn’t working as expected, first I am going to question why, and then I might have to resort to more aggressive treatment options. If patients admit to their indiscretions, then doctors can work with the patient to develop strategies to keep their diet on track,” she says.
How you’re using medications
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When you can’t shake a cough or you’re experiencing an abnormal breakout, a doctor’s job is to not only diagnose you, but to help prescribe you the right concoction of medicine to overcome the illness ASAP. (Check out these .) However, if you come back complaining that you’re still not over the hump, it’s important to be honest when your doctor asks how often you took the pills or how you applied the cream. “If you are not truthful about whether you are actually using your medications, then we cannot accurately gauge if they are or are not working for you,” explains Manhattan dermatologist Joshua Zeichner, MD.
He explains that often times when patients come back for their follow-up appointment, he quizzes them on how they specifically have been using a topical medication. “It may come out that they used them for a week and gave up, are only spot treating and not applying to the full face as directed, or didn’t even fill the prescription at all. Acne medications only work if you use them properly and for an adequate amount of time,” he says.
And while Dr. Zeichner specializes in acne and skin care, the same logic applies to all prescriptions. “You are not helping yourself if you are not using them, and you are certainly not helping yourself if you aren’t being honest about not using them when speaking to your doctor,” he adds.
Frequently Asked Questions
Being truthful about your surgical history helps doctors minimize risks such as scar tissue formation, allergic reactions, and other complications during future procedures. Even if surgeries were elective or minor, this information is crucial for safe and effective treatment planning.
Your age influences how doctors prescribe treatments and assess health risks. Providing accurate age information ensures appropriate medical decisions and maintains trust in the doctor-patient relationship, which is essential for effective care.
Doctors rely on honest information about your diet to create effective health plans. Underreporting unhealthy eating or non-compliance with diets can lead to ineffective treatments and may require more aggressive interventions if the real issues aren't addressed.
If you don't accurately report medication usage, doctors cannot determine whether treatments are effective or if adjustments are needed. This can delay recovery and lead to unnecessary changes in prescriptions or dosages.
Yes, lying about your age can break the essential trust between you and your doctor. Trust is fundamental for open communication and effective healthcare, so honesty ensures better medical outcomes and a stronger doctor-patient bond.
Doctors consider lifestyle habits to assess overall health risks and tailor medical advice or treatments accordingly. Honest disclosure helps them provide personalized recommendations to improve your health and prevent complications.
Patients often underestimate or deny unhealthy eating due to embarrassment or difficulty admitting non-compliance with diets. This can prevent doctors from understanding the true challenges and providing effective support or alternative strategies.
You should openly discuss the difficulties with your doctor so they can help develop strategies to overcome obstacles and adjust your treatment plan if necessary. Honest communication enables better support and increases the chances of success.
Doctors often check your age against official documents like insurance cards. Discrepancies can raise concerns about honesty and may prompt doctors to question other information, potentially affecting your care quality.
Medications, especially topical treatments like for acne, require proper and consistent use to be effective. Incorrect or incomplete usage can lead to poor results, prolonged illness, or the need for stronger treatments.
